The 3 Hebrew Words That Can Shatter An Incubus's Grip On Your Life

A Whisper in the Dark

It began as a whisper. Not the soft, comforting whisper of the wind through the olive trees, but a shadowed, invasive presence that left her waking in the dead of night, heart pounding, a cold heaviness pressing down on her chest. She didn’t understand it at first. She called it “fear,” “anxiety,” or even “bad dreams.” But deep down, she sensed something else—something spiritual.

This presence is often referred to as an incubus—a demonic force that seeks to oppress, manipulate, and invade the vulnerable spaces of our hearts and minds. For many Messianic Jewish women, it can appear through dreams, persistent thoughts, or feelings of shame and spiritual heaviness. And like a skilled thief, it rarely announces itself openly—it works through codes, rituals, and subtle manipulations, often disguised as normal life challenges.

But here’s the truth: God has given us tools to resist, dismantle, and completely overcome its grip. Sometimes, those tools are as simple and profound as three Hebrew words, carrying deep spiritual power when spoken in faith.

Understanding the Incubus: How It Presents

Before we dive into the words, let’s clarify what we’re facing. An incubus is often portrayed in folklore as a male demon who seduces or oppresses. Spiritually, its goal is much broader: it seeks to steal peace, identity, and spiritual freedom, feeding off fear, shame, and secrecy.

You might experience its presence through:

Persistent nightmares that feel more real than dreams

Sudden waves of doubt or shame

Feelings of spiritual heaviness or oppression

Subtle manipulations in relationships or circumstances

The incubus often operates through rituals, codes, and agreements—not always visible to the human eye. It can latch onto vows spoken in fear, repeated lies accepted as truth, or emotional patterns that remain unhealed.

But remember this: you are not powerless. Scripture reminds us:

“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” — James 4:7

Even in the darkest hours, surrendering to God and speaking truth aloud brings freedom.

The Power of Words: Three Hebrew Keys

1. Shalom (שָׁלוֹם) — Peace

Shalom is more than just “peace” in the sense of calm; it embodies wholeness, completeness, and divine protection. When an incubus tries to instill fear, doubt, or shame, Shalom is a spiritual sword: a declaration that God’s peace rules over your mind, heart, and home.

Practical Application:

Speak Shalom over your mornings, your home, and your mind: “Adonai, Your Shalom reigns in my heart.”

In moments of fear or oppression, breathe slowly and repeat Shalom, visualizing God’s peace filling every corner of your soul.

Scripture Reflection:

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” — John 14:27

This verse reminds us that God’s peace is unshakable. When an incubus brings restlessness or dread, Shalom re-centers your spirit in God’s authority.

2. Emet (אֱמֶת) — Truth

Emet is truth—not just factual truth, but spiritual truth grounded in God’s Word. Incubi thrive on deception: lies about your worth, lies about God’s love, lies that twist reality. Embracing Emet cuts through this spiritual fog.

Practical Application:

Speak the truth of your identity in Messiah: “I am a beloved child of God, redeemed and holy.”

Counter every negative thought with a scripture. For example, when fear whispers “You are alone,” declare Psalm 27:10: “Though my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will take me in.”

Scripture Reflection:

“Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth.” — John 17:17

Every time you affirm Emet, you align your mind with reality—the reality that God’s promises are unchanging, and the enemy’s lies have no ultimate power.

3. Kavod (כָּבוֹד) — Glory / Honor

Kavod represents the weight and presence of God’s glory. An incubus often seeks to diminish your identity, steal your confidence, or distort your sense of purpose. Invoking Kavod reminds the spirit world that your life is under God’s divine honor and authority.

Practical Application:

Begin your prayers with acknowledgment of God’s glory over your life: “Adonai, Your Kavod fills this place and protects me.”

Meditate on your value as one created in God’s image, allowing Kavod to reframe fear as reverence and divine presence.

Scripture Reflection:

“The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?” — Psalm 27:1

Kavod doesn’t just ward off fear—it reclaims your space in the spiritual realm. You are covered, visible to God, and honored in His presence.

Overcoming the Codes and Rituals

The incubus may attempt to maintain control through repeated patterns or hidden agreements. Overcoming this requires active spiritual engagement:

1. Awareness: 

Recognize the subtle ways fear, shame, or oppression enter your life.

2. Declaration: 

Speak Shalom, Emet, and Kavod aloud in your prayers and daily life.

3. Community: 

Share your struggles with trusted sisters in Messiah who can pray with you and hold you accountable.

4. Spiritual Boundaries: 

Identify and renounce any agreements, vows, or rituals that may have inadvertently opened doors to oppression.

Scripture Reflection:

“Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” — James 4:7

Resistance is not passive; it is active, vocal, and persistent. When you combine awareness, scripture, and spoken truth, the incubus loses its foothold.

A Gentle Invitation to Walk Together

Dear sister, if you’ve felt the shadow of oppression or the weight of spiritual attack, know this: you are not alone. Every step you take in faith, every word of truth you speak, every moment you claim Shalom, Emet, and Kavod, is a victory.

If this message has stirred your heart, consider joining a circle of women committed to walking in freedom—through prayer, encouragement, and shared learning. Whether you choose to support this work through prayer, sharing, or giving, your presence strengthens a community devoted to spiritual healing and empowerment in Messiah.

Together, we can shine a light into the darkest corners, dispel deception, and walk fully in God’s peace, truth, and glory.

Closing Scripture:

“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.” — Matthew 5:14

Let these words remind you that even in moments of fear or oppression, your life reflects God’s light. Speak the Hebrew words of power. Declare His presence. Step boldly into freedom.