Biblical Relationship Red Flags and Green Flags

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GREEN FLAGS — Signs of a Healthy, God‑Honoring Relationship

• Integrity — He is honest, consistent, and trustworthy (Proverbs 22:1).
• Gentleness — He responds with calmness, not anger (Proverbs 15:1).
• Wisdom — He surrounds himself with wise influences (Proverbs 13:20).
• Loyalty — He shows steadfast love and friendship (Proverbs 17:17).
• Humility — He admits mistakes and seeks peace (Micah 6:8).
• Self‑Control — He respects boundaries and practices discipline (Proverbs 25:28).
• Spiritual Alignment — He encourages your walk with God (Psalm 1:1).

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RED FLAGS — Signs of an Unhealthy or Spiritually Dangerous Relationship

• Lack of Self‑Control — Impulsiveness, anger, or boundary‑breaking (Proverbs 25:28).
• Foolish Companions — He keeps destructive or ungodly influences (Proverbs 13:20).
• Harshness — He escalates conflict instead of calming it (Proverbs 15:1).
• Deception — Dishonesty or hidden behavior (Proverbs 12:22).
• Pride — Unwillingness to apologize or self‑reflect (Proverbs 16:18).
• Spiritual Drift — He pulls you away from God, not toward Him (Psalm 1:1).
• Disrespect — Belittling, mocking, or dismissive behavior (Proverbs 19:13).